Christ First Forum

My husband walked out on me and my marriage because he didn't want to be married. He has not cheated. He is a christian. I remarried a year and a half later. So despite my attemps to reconcile with him, he refused, does this now make me an adulteress?

"But I tell you that anyone who divorces his wife, except for marital unfaithfulness, causes her to become an adulteress, and anyone who marries the divorced woman commits adultery."

"Adulteres will not inherit the kingdom of God"

Brink,

My name is Eddie. I am going thru a divorce , which sounds like you didnt want yours either, that I under no way what so ever wants at all. I suffer from mental illness and I tried to commit suicide many times. The last time I did it I pulled out my pistol and put it to my head and was going to do it in front of my wife because she was leaving me. She told me that day at my Pdoctor that she was leaving because she didnt love me anymore. After 18 years of us being a couple thru all we went thru the birth of our son (who is now 12) she doesnt love me anymore. I was put into a mental hospital for two weeks because of suicide attempt. I came home to an empty house with no wife or son no life at all!! I have been seperated now for 10 months. My wife is in a realationship with a new man. It wasnt even two weeks that I was home before she had this man. I have been told that she was cheating on me before the suicide attempt. I forgive her for what she is doing and would take her back in a heartbeat. I dont want my marriage and little family to be destroyed. I have ever right to go along with this divorce because she is cheating on me. I was not the one who filed for this demonic divorce. In my mind divorce is the working of Satan. I dont feel she has the right to divorce me when I didnt do anything except not take my meds like I was suppose to and not help her around house. I belive that if she goes thru with this divorce she will have to be the one to answer for it not me. I have reached out numerous times to try and reconcile with her but all she does is threaten me with a restraining order if I dont leave her alone and stop pushing myself on to her. I pray with every ounce of my being that she will take me back. I dont think you will be judged on the divorce or if you move on with someone else. He didnt want to work it out. I feel that God sees that and knows that you tried and were faithful. I would not worry about if you are forgiven or not. He sees and knows all of our hearts and minds. I dont feel personally that you are an adulteress!! You are a woman who wanted her marriage to work and your partner wasnt into seeing it work. I hope these words give you a sense peace!!