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Oklahoma Mother of 11 Headed to Harvard University

Published August 27, 2011 Associated Press

OKLAHOMA CITY -- Allyson Reneau dropped out of the University of Oklahoma in 1981 to get married and start a family.

She promised herself she would return to school after her first child turned 5.

Thirty years and 11 children later, Reneau is finally fulfilling her promise, and then some.

The Oklahoma City woman is just three credit hours away from earning a bachelor's degree in communications from OU.

Somehow, she has maintained a 4.0 GPA while raising her children -- nine girls and two boys, now ages 6 to 29 -- and running her own business.

Starting Monday, Reneau, 50, will begin graduate studies in international relations at Harvard University. Once a week she will fly to Massachusetts for classes. School officials are allowing her to finish the three undergraduate credits she has left at OU later this year, Reneau said.

"Sometimes those dreams, you bury them," Reneau said. "You get so busy raising your family that you forget your identity."

For the past couple years, Reneau has gone straight from classes at OU to work. When she got home in the evenings, she would feed her family and spend time with them before starting homework. Often that meant waiting until 8 or 9 p.m. and studying late into the night. Then she would wake up about 5:30 a.m. to read the Bible and run before her children woke up.

Reneau first came to OU in 1979 from Kremlin, a small town north of Enid.

A former world champion baton twirler, Reneau beat out more than 140 people for a position as the featured twirler at OU. She was named a Top-10 Freshman and served as vice president of her sorority, Chi Omega.

Reneau left OU after her sophomore year to get married and start her family.

"I always said when the baby was 5, I would go back and finish my degree," Reneau said. "But there were 11 babies."

For 20 years, Reneau was a stay-at-home mom. She cooked, cleaned and cheered for her children at baseball games, violin concerts and more.

In 2000, she opened Victory Gymnastics. The gym started with one athlete, Reneau's daughter.

Today, as many as 500 athletes train there. The gym recently moved to a new building at 5721 Huettner Drive in Norman. Reneau coaches advanced-level gymnasts during the afternoon and evening. She also is director of Victory Academy, a school attached to the gym with about 10 students in first through sixth grade.

After her youngest daughter, Julianne, turned 5 in 2009, Reneau made an appointment with an adviser at OU.

Her family has been supportive, although some of the children tease her. One daughter, Olympia, said "What's the point, mom? You're so old!"

Reneau and her husband, Dale Reneau Jr., have taught their children to follow their dreams. The children said they were happy to see their mother pursue hers.

As the professor went over the assignments and described how to upload completed work on the computer, Reneau sat in her chair, "crumbling," she said. She wasn't sure she would go back for the second class.

"Everything had changed so much in 30 years," Reneau said. "I could not believe the academic challenge."

A former schoolteacher and an academic adviser at OU encouraged her, and Reneau made up her mind to push forward.

She chose to attend classes during the day so she wouldn't miss evenings with her family. Most of her classmates were less than half her age, and all of them had laptops. Reneau had a pen and paper.

Sometimes her classmates would mistake her for the teacher on the first day of class.

Other times, teachers would recognize her and ask, "Did I have your daughter?"

"Yes," Reneau would respond. "This is her book."

The hectic nature of Reneau's life is evident during evenings at home with the family.

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Wow...I don't see how she had time for her family...

RAising three sons with husband was quite a chore for me...

Wonderful if you can do all things...