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by **Remnant** » 10 Jan 2011, 19:40

Living with Cancer
Frank Holmes

What I have found lately is how little people know about cancer, and especially ovarian cancer. I have learned a lot about this disease called the silent killer. Any form of cancer is serious and nothing to take lightly. As a cancer survivor of prostate cancer and radiation seed implants I can relate somewhat to any person who has cancer, but it does not compare to the ovarian cancer and treatments. I had 39 days straight of radiation treatment and some colon damage due to radiation, but it is nothing compared to what my wife has endured. Breast cancer and Ovarian cancer is so far different in that ovarian cancer is often missed or not found until the 3rd or fourth stage. Ovarian cancer once it has reached the third stage is likely to return even after radical surgery and extensive Chemo treatment. Ovarian cancer is also a very fast growing cancer that forms as a tumor and mass and can attach itself to Vidal organs such as bladder, pancreas and intestines and even spinal cords.

People have asked if my wife and I if she has considered not having surgery. That is like asking, have we considered suicide. When the cancer comes back it comes back fast and in the form of a tumor and left to grow will eventually take over and within 6 months to a year and it will kill you.

The whole purpose behind the surgery is to remove whatever cancer cells there is and eradicate them. The second phase of that is the Chemo treatment to kill what ever cells if any and to keep them form growing. To not treat is not an option for one who has the will and drive to live.

Chemo treatment is very hard on the patient and causes nausea, sometimes blistering and usually hair loss. Some treatments like Doxil causes blistering of the fingers and toes and sores in the mouth. There is also a residual effect called Chemo Brain that cause memory loss, and forgetfulness. It has been known to last even after Chemo treatments have stopped. Only about 30% of all Chemo treated patients ever return back to their regular work because of this and the deterioration of body muscle and compromised immune system due to the effects of Chemo.

This article is from my own observation and things that have been told to me by the Doctors and Chemo nurses in this field and by studies I have made on my own concerning Ovarian Cancer. One of the quotes from a Doctor who also had Cancer was that they found out that Cancer does not define a person, but it does define who our true friends and family are. Of all the things that we have learned, this has become more evident with time.

Joan, My precious wife of 27 years has had 17 Chemo treatments and two radical surgeries and a third one due the first of Feb. 2011. We are positive and believe by faith that this time she will be cured and that she will survive yet another operation and further Chemo treatments so we can have more time together in this life as loving companions. I am thankful for everyday I have with her. Every sunset, and Sun up. Every morning and evening and every precious moment that the Lord has given me with her.

I would like to close by saying that if you know anyone or have anyone in your family that is facing this terrible disease, to put your trust in God. If you do not know Jesus as your personal Lord and Saviour then please accept Him today. He never leaves us nor forsakes us.

He has allowed us to face these times of difficulties, not as a punishment but as a way for others to see Jesus in Joan and I during these times of troubles and to bring Glory and Honor to Him. To help others who may be facing or going through the same thing. Also, find a Dr. that you trust and one that trust the Lord! Never give up! Pray without ceasing! Always believing and not doubting! Look to the author and finisher of your faith and know that anything is possible with Him. Know that healing comes from Him and all things work together for good to those who love the Lord and who are called according to His purpose.
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by **AHeartofJoye** » 11 Jan 2011, 09:14

I would like to close by saying that if you know anyone or have anyone in your family that is facing this terrible disease, to put your trust in God. If you do not know Jesus as your personal Lord and Saviour then please accept Him today. He never leaves us nor forsakes us.

Beautiful post brother Frank.

Cancer is a dirty nasty disease, it claimed the life of my Grandmother (colon cancer), my Aunt (Ovarian cancer), my Mother (colon cancer), my Father (prostrate cancer).
Another Aunt had both breasts removed - Breast Cancer., my half sister has Multiple Myeloma (bone cancer) - we have a family friend who is battling breast cancer.
My daughter is a R.N., Chemo certified, she works Oncology - she sees it every day in multiple forms.
No matter what you feel, what you may think, give it to Him - take it to God in prayer, and don't lose FAITH, TRUST in GOD!

Psalms 103:3 KJV
Who forgiveth all thine iniquities; who healeth all thy diseases;

Brother Frank, your beautiful wife Joan and you are in my prayers.

:yaap

by **Carmela** » 11 Jan 2011, 09:15

Wonderful post Frank. .. wonderful testimony!

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